My close friend told me last night, when she was eating dinner at my house, that I’m everyone’s go-to guy.
The idea that I’m someone’s go-to guy has never cross my mind before. I had some time to think about it today, and I think she might actually be right. I don’t mind it at all because it means that I am in their thoughts whenever something is happening, which is great as they’re in my thoughts as well. But that doesn’t mean I’m okay with others and outsiders using me whenever they please. Helping out, making plans, and what not is great as long as it’s with my close friends, but to use me when you haven’t put forth the effort of communicating with me, or hanging out with our group, will not fly with me. Please have a little respect for the left over and fragmented pieces of our friendship. You messed with my friend, I’m not foolish enough to keep you around. To call me whenever you need something isn’t going to work with me.